Support for Men: After Abortion
Your grief is real, and your feelings matter.
Men tend to get lost in the shuffle when speaking about abortion experiences. But if your partner or someone you love has had an abortion, you may find yourself struggling too. These feelings are intensified if you played a role in the pregnancy decision.
It can be challenging to speak about your abortion experience as a man. Many feel uncomfortable sharing their emotions out of fear of judgment. At Choices, we provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can share your story openly and honestly. Here, you won’t be questioned or shamed.
You deserve support. Your feelings–whether grief, confusion, guilt, anger, or anything in between–are valid, and we’re here to help you navigate them.
Reflecting on Your Experience
Reflecting on your experience can be difficult, but it can also help you find clarity and healing. You might ask yourself:
- Did I have any influence on her decision?
- Was my opinion considered?
- What is my current relationship with my partner?
- Do I regret my participation in the abortion decision?
- I’m not struggling–but I see her struggling. How can I support her?
These questions aren’t easy, but confronting them can guide you toward understanding and healing.
How We Can Support You
We recognize that men experience pregnancy loss differently, and our goal is to offer compassionate, practical support:
- Confidential Conversations & Prayer: Speak with someone who understands the unique grief men may experience after abortion.
- One-on-One & Group Support: For men who have experienced abortion personally or through a partner, we offer individual and group sessions with trained facilitators. These safe spaces allow you to share openly, connect with other men, and walk through healing together.
Connect With Us
No matter your connection to a past abortion, we are here to offer the support you need to heal. All of our services are no-cost and confidential.
Connect with us today to schedule an appointment and take the next step in your healing journey.